Talks with the child
We learn new ways to communicate with each other
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Kids´Skills will teach you
- how to talk to your child
- how to communicate with your partner
- how to create a positive atmosphere around everybody
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Establishing rapport with the child
There are 15 steps in Kids'Skills, but before you can use Kids'Skills - or any other method for that matter - you need to prepare the ground and establish a good contact with the child and the adults who are concerned about the child.
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In therapeutic literature this important preparatory phase has been called, among other things, "building rapport" or "establishing a working alliance".
I have sometimes called this phase step 0 to make the point that it is a prerequisite for Kids'Skills to work.
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Motivation to learn
Discussing the benefits of learning the skill
- A child's motivation to learn a given skill is dependent on the extent to which the child believes that learning that skill will benefit him and his family.
- The more benefits the child can see that there are of him learning the skill, the more motivated he will be to learn it.
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